First times and why?

[Guest ScottPH89]

This is largely out of curiosity but I wouldn't mind a few pointers if anyone has any.

I'm just wondering what your first time with a client was like. Like how old were you? Where was it? How did it go and is there anything you wish you'd done differently?

I was also wondering just why you've got into escorting. I decided (after being offered money for sex and watching "Secret Diary of a Call Girl) that it wasn't, as I thought, necessarily a sleazy and dirty trade but could be done with the same professionalism and standards as any other profession and I thought it could be a handy bit of income on the side whilst I'm at uni.

I'm still waiting for my first time, I've got to say I'm more than a little bit nervous. I've had a few people seeming interested but none of them have turned into anything serious just yet.

I'll let you know when my first time comes and goes.

Thanks,

Scott

[Chris]

How long have you been waiting for this first time.

When I decided on this I put an advert in the local paper and had 2 jobs the first day ???

[Guest ScottPH89]

I've been waiting for about two weeks. I think I could have had a first already but I've felt a little too unprepared.

[RuffRugged]

your post reminds me of how i felt in late 2009 when i first started i was meeting generous guys on chatlines and one day decided to put some ads up on escort sites, myn took about 2 weeks for a actual meet with a client, i was really nervous as free sex will no longer exsist so i would worry about performance etc, i just took as it come once you start intimacy the rest a doddle and after say 2 clients it make you more prepared and confident, my self with clients experiment sexually not only to find out what else that they may like but thou you can use for another client so each time i meet a client i try somthing different, they will come trust me, you must get some pro photos too and maybe think about a personal website

[SleazyMichael]

your post reminds me of how i felt in late 2009 when i first started i was meeting generous guys on chatlines and one day decided to put some ads up on escort sites, myn took about 2 weeks for a actual meet with a client, i was really nervous as free sex will no longer exsist so i would worry about performance etc, i just took as it come once you start intimacy the rest a doddle and after say 2 clients it make you more prepared and confident, my self with clients experiment sexually not only to find out what else that they may like but thou you can use for another client so each time i meet a client i try somthing different, they will come trust me, you must get some pro photos too and maybe think about a personal website

GREAT ADVICE!! - OMG - I started in Nov 2004 - just one month after I came out in Oct age 46yo - and for life of me I had so many I can't remember! - but I do recall it took time - in first six months one every 2/3 weeks - but once 'your face' gets known it changes - also depends WHERE & HOW you advertise - there is another thread I started ages ago worth checking:

http://www.goodescort.co.uk/escort-guide/showthread.php?125-Websites-where-you-can-advertise-amp-other-ideas

[HorniBen]

I still sometimes feel slightly nervous before meeting a new client, but it does come naturally after a while, and once you're both relaxed it's easy. (What's that advice they give actors..? Try to imagine them naked and you'll be fine, lol) Also, it's always worth remembering that the client might be nervous too, and it could be his first time

I'd been given money before, but the first time I decided to advertise was coming out of a club. Some guy started chatting me up and offered me money if I went back to his. I was skint and it got me through the week. So I put up an online ad the next day and over the space of about 6 months I met a couple of guys a few times before I put a proper ad up in QX. I probably would have dropped out of uni if I didn't escort... Having said that, it's a tricky balance working/studying so bear that in mind.

[Guest Steve]

The first time I shagged for money was on the advice from a female escort friend. My bestest friend, who is still my best friend, was a female escort. We used to go out in Low Fell (a suburb of Newcastle) on a Friday night and she would tell me about her conquests that week. She said I should do it and convinced me to take two days off work and stay at hers. She had a few regulars who were bisexual and she would see if they would be interested. I agreed and seen 3 clients over the two days and made myself about £200. My first client didn't want sex, all he wanted was for me to fart so he could sniff it and lick out my hole. She made me a massive bowl of vegetable soup 3 hours before he arrived and it went swimmingly. 2 months later I resigned from my 9-5 job and I've never looked back.

[SleazyMichael]

Ben & Steve gr8 posts! for me in the six months before I came out in Oct 2004 guys in the Sauna Bar Covent Garden kept saying I could make money - doing what? - you could be an escort.

If I had been on a chair I would have fallen off - never in a million years did I think this would become my full time career - just one month after I came out I started to advertise in the back of Boyz - lol I am back in the mag again - and the rest is history.