Trying other escorts

[Craig]

Had a 3 some yesterday with a client and an other escort that works in the brothel in Holland - where I'm working at the moment. It was easy as all the escorts who work here have been "vetted" so as we all get on , can work together and all provide a service to the standard that the chap that owes the brothel expects.

Before he recruits a new escort to work at the brothel the owner will send one of us to see the escort posing as a client to see what service he offers and if he'll fit the bill.

I wondered if any of you have visited escorts to see what their like? Perhaps before you started escorting and wanted to know what it was all about. When a "new" escort appears in my area at home I'll give him a month to see if he fades into obscurity and then make an appointment to visit him. Its amazing what you can pick up from the way they answer the telephone, how they give out information etc.

The appointments are always interesting and I have picked up one or two good ideas, tips, etc. However one or two visits have been appalling and afterwards I've wondered how they attract clients, certainly how they attract repeat clients.

I dont consider it underhand, after all the escorts always gets paid, I consider it market research !! One of the escorts has since become a good friend and duo partner.

So what do you think? any of you tried this?

I'd be interested in your views.

[James]

Only ever on a friendly basis or to discuss accommodation arrangements, which has a handful of times resulted in action. I don't think I'd pose as a client with my face displayed on the ad, as not only could it make things awkward, but I'm too tight to part with the cash by exactly the same means that I'd earned it. Say I bought Silver or Equities and got an income apart from this, I would probably semi-retire and change my attitude towards this. I would probably do it out of curiosity and because I actually like the look of them.

[Rab]

I've tried quite a few masseurs, both 'strictly-legit' and sensual/erotic.

Sometimes, over the course of the conversation with the masseur, what I do for work comes out, sometimes not - I don't go in hiding the fact, but I don't go in with the explicit intention of sharing it either.

I did find the experience odd at first (still sometimes do), going for the sensual/erotic sessions (or a 'legit' massage that I know will end happily), funny to be on the other side, to be paying someone to bring you off and give you pleasure. I still find it odd regardless of the number of reassuring conversations I've had with some of my own clients about hiring escorts/masseurs and listening to (usually older) clients who hire and enjoy without a second thought.

But aye, it's good to see and experience what other guys are offering and also just to put a real-world-face to some of the guys whose photos and profiles I see day in, day out online.

[Ben Manchester]

I've hired escorts in London, not directly to test them but just for personal fun when I've been flying through on a schedule. It's interesting to see how other escorts work however and I've picked up good tips from visiting other guys.

I'd recommend all escorts try it at least once, pick someone who appears professional and see what you can learn by being on the other side of the transaction.

[Cameron Cox]

When I used to travel a lot I would sometimes hire when I was in a new city to sort of check out the situation in that city but like Rab I always feel a bit uncomfortable hiring

Hiring is also a great way to critque your own work as you can put yourself literally in the clients place and see the whole thing from a clients perspective when you are hiring another escort and then apply that to the experince you provide a client

Doubles are great if you get to work with someone who has a good skill set and its amazing to learn new techniques, attitudes and practises. On the other hand its also a nightmare when you have to work with someone who lacks skill and/or enthusiasm for their job

[SleazyMichael]

fascinating! - actually many times in recent years I have had the desire - but then invariably get distracted - now that I have recently given myself as year to re-focus my life - hiring a young lad is defo on the cards - well should be quite something as I have such a high profile will be amazed that they wont know what I do - but I ain't bothered.

Way back in late 2004 age 46 just after I came 'OUT' and wanted to get into escorting ( this may be covered elsewhere) decided best way to get advice was to pay for it - then I had no idea what to charge - it was best £90 I ever spent! lol I ended up giving the escort a massage - OFTEN I get asked for advice - yet ALL walk away soon as I mention well if you want to know what it takes to be an award winning escort this is how much it will cost....but I digress.

For sure I do have strong desire to hire - even some of my duo partners - yes worked with them but that is not the same.

xxx Michael

ps the place in Holland I vibe Amsterdam took a client there years back twice - gr8 time AND the client ended up paying me to have 121's with escorts - the second sess went 45 mins over!!

[Craig]

Perhaps it sounds like I'm a serial escort user!! I only see another escort to "suss" out the opposition, like James I dont want to spend my money the same way as I earn it

As Cameron says, it is a great way to critique your own work. I find it a better way than when working as a duo as if the other escort is providing a poor service I tend to work a bit harder to compensate.

I tend to have a list of points that I check when thinking about hiring another escort - now I am sounding sad!!

Is he easy to contact? - the number of escorts that dont provide a contact number or never answer the phone or call back when you leave a msg.

What's his telephone manner like? - brusk and non communicative or helpful - what information does he provide about his service.

Does he do in or out calls? - if he only does outcalls I dont bother to book

How much does he charge? - if he asking for an excessive fee I won't bother.

Availability? - is he only available at odd times or only weekends

If I do make a booking I'll always go through with it and pay the fee the escort asked for. I might call and say that I'll be 10 minutes late and see how he reacts but I'll always go through with the booking.

Once there I'll see what his manner is like, does he offer drinks etc, is he rushing me, is the house clean - bathroom, bed etc - does he match his pics / description and does he provide the service he's advertising. ie. if he says he's active - is he.

In the 20 odd years working in the sex industry I've probably seen or experienced the lot, but I'm still amazed at the poor service some escorts provide and that reflects badly upon the "professional" escorts.

As for being recognised by another escort and them discovering what I'm up to, I suppose that I'm not "high profile"..I always thought that discretion was the most important attribute an escort can possess.

[SleazyMichael]

'I always thought that discretion was the most important attribute an escort can possess.' - ah so that is where I am going wrong HE HE!

Very interesting by Craig - well my motives are very different! - as explained previous.

[SkinBossDan]

Iv done about 20 you pay for a service just like paying to have your car washed ,

[ozinlondon]

Never hired a male escort anywhere or any kind of escort in London but I pay for therapeutic massages sometimes if I need one and can't get an appointment for a free one on the NHS at the THT clinic in Earls Court. Also always pay for massages if I'm going somewhere with a different style of massage like Thailand or Turkey. That's the best way to learn new massage techniques- relax, enjoy and try to remember the best techniques to add to your own repertoire. Youtube is a good way to learn too but not as much fun.

[SleazyMichael]

Do I ever book an escort?

YES! several times in the last six months.

Admit I am an escort when booking?
NO!

'There is only one Sleazymichael' is NOT a throw-away quote:

Review submitted my Sleazymichael From Nunhead London  16th Feb 2015:

Could this be a first for a review, in the world? a client who admits that he is normally paid for sex! Yes Sleazymichael ESCORT pays for sex. Maybe I now have your attention?
So why did I book Ygor? and will be seeking shared pleasure with this FIVE star escort again!
I want this to be more than just the usual review and hopefully will be thought provoking, this will give you a rare insight as to why an escort would ever pay for sex, but also I hope encourage you to book Ygor!
Originally there was not going to be any mention or hint that I am also a full time escort, and then I thought why not? For an escort to admit that he - well I am a he!  ever pays for sex in PRINT is regarded as a taboo, well FUCK taboos! Anyone that knows my motto 'There is Only One Sleazymichael' will understand my attitude to anything that is remotely normal. The reality is that some escorts DO pay for sex, others seek the free pleasure of fellow escorts usually wanting 'chems' fun. I don't do chems so this was not the reason.
I also admit that this will be the third time in the last six months that I have booked a male escort. Without going into too much detail on the first encounter my client had booked me with a quite famous escort but at the last moment admitted he only had enough finance to pay for me, well I had been gagging to duo with this guy for at least two friggin years, but always at the last moment the client would cancel or whatever. Any sensible escort would have called the other and aborted the session. Well I am not sensible! When it came to paying us BOTH I discretely slipped my client the cash to pay for the other escort, a well established duo partner on my personal website, and the personal cost for two hours? £50! To this day this awesome escort has no idea that I paid him ( he will soon know, that's OK ) - but my dream had cum true, eleven GENUINE inches of thick black cock up my arse repeatedly.
Saturday 14th Feb I had a pre-booked client, two hours he insisted on paying up front. He was so fit with lovely tatts, very sensual and I could not wait to fuck him, actually he almost made me shoot my load before I even got my cock out. Assuring me that he could easily cum twice ( usually I discourage clients from cuming too soon, as they invariably leave feeling short-changed & deflated ) within five-teen minutes he shot his load in his lycra shorts ( oh I love lycra! ) and - it was all OVER 'You know what Michael, I am entirely happy now and will see you again.' I never even see his cock!
He departed happy and contented, but left me with a raging hard on and nowhere to put it! I resisted the usual temptation to put on one of my fave gay pornos Harem by Cadinot The best gay porno ever made, period  ( I have wanked off to every scene in that movie ).
I tried to 'come down' and started yet more work on my adult profiles, and then thought fuck it why can't I book an escort? like is it 'illegal' for one escort to book another? Actually since becoming an escort in 2004 the reality of me paying for sex has been building momentum for years, but two significant factors in only the last three months have changed everything, the sale of a mortgage free house which I part owned and finally getting a client that escorts dream of booking & rebooking me for extended overnight sessions. The cost had always put me off, well NOT any more - well within reason I won't pay some of the outrageous prices which of course are never quoted on some profiles.
Seeking out a quality escort that ticks all my boxes as a potential client - NOT duo partner, is not quite the needle in the haystack that it seems, I have had so many horror stories from clients that have booked me - sometimes on the re-bound from other encounters, but then when I probe a little ( that is BEFORE my 7.5 inch cock comes out! ) it does not surprise me. From ten years of experience seeking out escorts to duo with me,  I KNOW what qualities to look for.
Well I decided to apply the same logic taking the role of a client, and bingo Ygor, just grabbed me!
Doh OK a cute 19 you lad from the Czech Republic was flying to Prague, he will for sure be booked when he returns.
So why did Ygor tick ALL my boxes and EXCEED all my expectations? I was going to share that 'when NOT being paid for sex I have ALWAYS been attracted to much younger guys, of any race - yes I know BLACK is my big weakness - and not too gym obsessed.' Well that has not changed but NOW I am paying when it suits me.
His main image - brilliant, the cap hanging from his gorgeous cock, the smile, the sense of fun. So slim, sexy,  sexual and NOT photo-shopped - at all. Despite not being professionally taken pics, his personality shone through the images - to find an escort that smiles ANY escort that smiles trust me if YOU are a client is a good starter for ten. I just don't get the 'attitude' hey look at my amazing gym toned abs, or I can't be bothered so let's shove this device in front of the mirror. ( You are supposed to be a PROFESSIONAL escort so act like one! ) and then when on rates 'ask me' you are quoted and this is for real £400 for 2 hours it's like what planet are you on?
Apart from the images all I had to go on was: 'ACCEPT CREDIT AND DEBIT CARDS!!!! Request First ALSO CAN DO FOR 15MIN AND 30 MIN INCALLS!!!!!  INCALLS IN CANARY WHARF STATION. Can do weekends, dinner company, party company and many other things, just ask me for the rates.'
But for me 'a picture speaks a thousand words' the majority of his pictures were enough for me, so I called the number: 07594792452, what a charming guy, well his English is much better than my Portuguese, I understood enough to realize that WE were going to have fun. Lovely polite and despite only escorting here in the UK for six months he had a very professional phone persona. My deliberate intention was NOT to share with Ygor what I did for a living, that would have changed EVERYTHING, and I know from feedback that some dumb escorts that intend to pay make the admission first.
Booking Ygor for an hour - oh please, no half measures for me, invariably I can persuade most of my first time clients to book me for two hours, so when I am paying the same principle will apply!
Ygor ouzed sex appeal, sensuality, he is a great passionate lover, yes we ended up making love, this was not sex in the animal sense, there is a difference. We connected on every level.
Boy can Ygor French kiss - or was it a Brazilian kiss? I could have just kept me tongue in his mouth for the full two hours, actually it was a generous two hours, um I wonder why? There was no rush to strip off, apart from restraining him from removing his super hot green Calvin's.
I loved the intensity, he fucked me like a stallion and hesitant at first he soon gave up his arse to be rimmed, oh wow super smooth, super bubbled, I got my tongue so deep, knowing that being a professional his butt would like mine be super clean, WE do know what douching is! he was moaning in pleasure. I kept having to remind myself that I was the customer, yes it was quite a mind fuck but in a great way.
I held this beautiful stunning guy in deep embrace both naked my raging hard on rubbing against his, and I felt such pleasure being able to wrap my arms & legs around his super slim frame.
Of course I was gagging to fuck, and his initial reluctance 'Oh Michael your cock is very big and thick' ( Cum on it is only 7.5 inches! ) was soon overcome when I offered some of my original formula Rush poppers ( none of this English EU formula crap ) I knew this was a big deal for Ygor he admitted it would be his biggest client cock, so I took it real slow, after all I am a REAL pro when I comes to fucking. Soon Ygor was  moaning in pleasure, then when I slowly rotated and performed my rotating helicopter fuck ( regular clients will understand ) it was I sensed for this lovely 19yo Brazilian a Michael Caine from The Italian Job moment 'I only told you to blow the bloody doors off'
The icing on the cake, was me riding Ygors delicious cock then looking into his eyes with porn on and the perfect house music, I shot my cum in spasms and groans all over his super slim frame. 'Michael will I know when your cuming?' - lol!! Ygor won't need to ask that again. Ygor then returned the favour, and then spunked his super-sweet cum in my mouth.
We both were then near the official end of the session, and lay next to each other without the usual rush to wet wipe away the evidence. Besides cum is a very good skin conditioner!
Then with about ten minutes left I made an 'excuse' to leave my bedroom briefly but before going to the kitchen to get some wine,  I grabbed a recent copy of a magazine, a certain publication that you can purchase from the top shelf of WH Smith, and said to Ygor,' have a look in the escort section.'
When I arrived back in the room just minutes later, it was a precious moment. Of course he has seen my full page special feature - wish I could have used a camera to capture the lovely expression of disbelief.
Initially Ygor could not understand why I had felt the need to book him or any escort and pay for sex. Well essentially what I have shared in this review did help him to realize my motivation.
His confirmation that he would never forget the experience well as a CLIENT I took as a great compliment, for me I wanted Ygor the guy I was paying to also enjoy the experience, knowing that he was enjoying our shared time actually gave me the customer the most pleasure.
Also a terrific endorsement of this lovely guy was that we chatted for at least thirty minutes after the session ended.
Ygor knows I will seek his pleasure again, but also and this is the mind fuck super twist, that there will in the future be occasions when I won't be his client, he will be my duo buddy, yes a client will be paying us both. Surely the best of both worlds? why do YOU think I have so many duo partners?
I reckon this could be a World first in reviews - Escort paying for sex - submits a review - does not hide identity - and the escort being paid will join me in the future to be paid by another client - Sleazymichael Escort - Ygor Escort.
Here is Sleazymichael the Client signing off for now - this makes a mind fuck role reversal change of being on the receiving end of 67 reviews - to return the favour for an escort is deeply satisfying - it will be his first, but surely not the last.
I actually had to explain what a review is & its purpose, so  if you are reading this review, and it's content motivates you to book Ygor PLEASE if you enjoy the experience, then offer to submit a review.
'I leave it with you'
Sleazymichael 56yo, Nunhead, London.

[RobDamon]

I had a casual relationship with another escort that lasted several years. I learned a lot from him.

 

I don't think I'd pay another escort to have sex though, although I do understand the idea that you can learn some tips from them.

[SleazyMichael]

There is also another motive for me booking escorts - maybe six or so times in the last year - I so get off having duos - which I know does not rock many escort boats - I book - see if we sexually connect and on other levels - then at the end of the session I drop the bombshell - invariably the escort is then very positive about becoming a duo partner - lol for me this is money well spent as it is investing in my work - with my new website next month I will be adding some new guys - not all have agreed to become a duo via the me paying route.

[xxxAlexxx]

I hired escorts before but females escorts!

[SleazyMichael]

LOL - If you check this during the interview I confirmed that I booked Tegwyn twice as a client - and now I work with this hot lad - one of the best duo partners in the past eleven years.

'Escort Sleazy Michael With Duo Partner Tegwyn' http://www.dirtyboyz.xxx/Dirtyboyz/34/index.html Go to Page 24 & 45.
Note: This is Issue 34 you can access via 'archive' option.